Friday, March 12, 2010

Gotcha Day!

We have our babies in our arms! Here I am again at 4 am, my body is just not switching over to Taiwan time yet. I did get a full 5 hours rest though. The last 24 hours have been exciting and exhausting. We left our hotel in a taxi Friday morning going to a children's Government agency to be united with our kids. We arrived in my typical late fashion, 10 minutes past our appointment. They had just finished up with their going away party. We followed our social worker up to the party. In we walked and there was everybody. I saw Kai first and then Naveia whizzed past me. There were Kai's foster mother, father, a new little brother, Naveia's foster mother, and about 6 Government social workers. We first went into a toy room and sat on the floor. Naveia came right in and started showing us the gifts she had received from the party. Kai was checking us out but keeping his distance. We gave them their backpacks we had filled with a few toys and candy. That was our bait to lure them in. Naveia started going through it all and playing with everything. Kai was still held back and then finally we caught him with the toy airplane. We talked and asked questions with Naveia's fosterma first. She was very nice, energetic woman. She said Naveia is an easy child to care for. We got to take video and pictures our meetings. Naveia is so sweet, we had given her a purse with some play jewelry and she wanted to no if it was o.k. to send the ring with her fosterma to give to an older sister at their house. Of course I said yes and told her that was very nice of her. I was also able to share my adoption testimony with everyone there. I would tell some and then our social worker would translate to them all. I wanted them all to know that this was God's work at hand knitting our family together. Naveia showed her emotions when the foster mother was leaving and the three of us hugged and where all crying. And then she was fine and ready to go with us. She started packing her things up. We had to tell her we still needed to talk with Kai's family. Kai's fosterma and ba where very attentive and quiet. They have been doing this for 17 years so it is not the first time they had to say goodbye to a baby they had given their love to. That made me feel better. They said goodbye and Kai was kinda busy playing so he didn't pay much attention And THEN he realized they were gone and fell totally out. He cried so hard that it gave him a nose bleed. The meeting was three hours and very nice and a relaxed atmosphere. We got a whole entire suitcase of Kai's belongings plus 2 cans of formula and a whole package of diapers. Naveia also came with a lot of stuff. So we pack into one taxi the luggage, kids, us, and our social worker. Our social worker came in our hotel lobby and gave us some more official documents. And Jessie just so you know, I asked her and we do not have to pay the Visa fee. This was great news! Our afternoon was spent in our hotel room they would not take nap as we had planned they wanted to explore and play with everything. So after a few hours we realized a nap just wasn't going to happen. We took a outing around the hotel. This outing was interesting and we are now having second thoughts if we should even leave our room. First we went to a kids indoor play area they had fun but Naveia already got hurt. She jumped on a slide half way down it and it boomeranged her to the floor on her face. She is very active and and jumpy kid. Always trying to jump off the bed ect... Never had a kid like this one. So anyway she now has a red mark on her cheek to go with the bruise on the other cheek she came with. Do you get the picture, this kid is busy. Then we went outside, walk a little ways to the 7-11 and they each picked something. I should also add the kids don't want to walk they both want John to be holding them at the same time. Finally we walked to an open field to eat our snacks. We found out there that Naveia is a fast runner. She took off fast, laughing as I chase her in my dress and high sandals. Just picture it. It was not funny to me because there are roads on both sides of the field. After that John said it was time to go back to our room for the night. This is when Kai had his sad moment he cried for his fosterma we just comforted him and after an hour he fell asleep with John. Naviea and I spent time together. We took a bath, painted her nails and did her hair. For dinner we decided to ordered room service instead of going out. Finally we did a web chat with my parents, Zarra, and Zane. They could see us but we could not see them. Bedtime was late like 10:30 pm but Praise God they went to sleep without a fuss. They are all sleeping right now. Naveia got up once and told me she needed to pee(naio naio) and I just gave Kai his second bottle and right back to sleep he went. So that was it our first day with our little Asian angels.

11 comments:

Gladney Taiwan Team said...

John, Mandy, Naviea, Kai, Zarra and Zane- Congratulations to the big and happy family! We are so happy for your family and cannot wait to talk with you once back in the US. Enjoy these first moments with your little ones!

Blessings and have a safe journey!

Lindsay Hatcher and the Gladney Team

Amanda E. said...

I'm sitting here reading this with tears running down my face! Tears of happiness for you because I know this has been a life long dream of yours and happiness for your children that have finaly found their forever family!

Kel said...

They look totally beautiful!!! What a wonderful thing to happen... Enjoy your first days with them

Congratulations!!!

Anonymous said...

Mandy & John, I've left your blog up all day & refreshed it every so often to see the news ASAP! But we were gone all afternoon & just got home (8:00 pm). WOW!!! We are so excited with you! Praise God, other than that I'm speechless! Meg & I loved reading your description of the day and seeing the photos. We're so looking forward to meeting these little angels!

Love to you all,
Nancy

Anonymous said...

Hi guys,

We are so excited for you all! I know it's all a whirlwind right now but try to enjoy each moment... you'll be home before you know it and Taiwan will be nothing but a memory. It really is a wonderful place.

If you guys are looking for something fun to do one day, take a cab to the Dream Mall. The 5th floor is fun and also the roof has a ton of fun stuff for the kids. They would have a blast there and there's also a TGI Fridays if you're hungry for some american food. :)

We're just thrilled for you guys! Congratulations! Your children are just beautiful!

- Greg and Jessica Adkins
Knoxville, TN

Anonymous said...

Sorry I'm on here again! I was just thinking about Kai and his struggles and how I want to pray for him. So, could you let us know in your posts about anything for any you that you would like us to pray about while you're still there.

Thanks,
Nancy

Anonymous said...

Thank you SO much for sharing these moments with us!

Heather said...

The pictures are perfect! Congratulations and I'm so happy for you all!!!!!

Tami and Bobby Sisemore Family said...

CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Debberoo said...

Congratulations!!! Such an amazing day, it sounds like things went very well. Naveia and Kai are beautiful!

p.s Naveia has the same style glasses as our daughter :)

Chil,dresss' said...

I had no idea you we're going to be able to post this much. I'm retarded and have been relying on mom to update me. anyways, I just read your gotta day and cried the whole way through. I felt like I to was reliving the moments. I was full of anticipation, joy, excitement, laughter, sadness and rest of the adoption journey coming to an end. I am so happy for all of you especially Naveia and Kai for the amazing parents and love they are going to receive for the rest of their lives. You both are an inspiration and we are blessed to be apart of a family who has embraced adoption. We love you and want to do a video call? If it will take up min. away from the kids forget it. We just can't wait!!

Love,
Corrin, Brandon & Syvon